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Hey! Work sucked, but I got to buy some really cute red high heels. So yeah. :D

SQUISHY:
Sounds logical to me. :D

LLWV:
I'm glad that you're happy with your decision! Pursue these guys :wink: and let us know if anything happens! :D

CAMBER:
I'm glad that you had a good day with K. And if just being friends with him is what you want, then that's fine. I suppose that if you ever got the whim to date him again, you could do so. So it's probably the safest and most convenient. I'm just glad that you're happy, Cam! :D

SXL:
Gosh, I feel so bad for you! This must be so tough. :( But when you further explained it, I understand where you're coming from. It makes sense. And I guess... it would be much less painful to let go of him now. But you should definitely remain friends with him. If this is what you want to do and you've really thought about it, then it must be right. Sometimes the right thing and the hardest thing are the same. :? I'm sorry, girl. But hey, if it's what's best for you then you can't stay too upset about it. I'm sure you'll need some time to recover, but don't let this ruin the remainder of your summer. I'm sure there's plenty of other guys out there who need to be flirted with! So I'm not saying that you should bounce right back, but don't stay in a rut for too long. I hope you feel better once this is all over with. I'm sorry it had to end this way for you two. :(
EDIT: I just thought of this. The saying, "If you love something set it free, if it comes back it's yours to keep." Set Noah free if you feel that's right. If he still feels the same way in October or whenever and he decides that he can't live without you, then you can get back together. Don't get your hopes too high, to avoid major devastation, but this is definitely an option.

TIFFI:
But you never said whether or not you like band geek, too!

HOLDEN:
Mahaha... we already talked. :wink:
:D :D

NICALYGRAY:
Welcome to the thread! I'm so glad that you left that loser and decided you weren't going to be treated like that! Good for you! I'm glad you're happy. :D

TWILIGHTVAMPIRE17:
Welcome to the thread! It's okay. You're not alone on that. But don't worry, there's no rush to date. It's totally normal. (A lot of dating in high school isn't meaningful anyway.) But really, you just need to go out and meet some guys. And then pick one you like. And go from there. :wink: And the friend thing... well, don't let yourself get in that position. When you meet a new guy, flirt viciously so there's no time to be put in the friend category. Haha. :D

VV:
Yeah, Jacob's cool. We haven't gone Irish dancing yet, but hopefully he'll come when we do so that I can get to know him better. And Tim... I should like Tim. Really, he's probably a really good complement to me and he's really cute. (Which is why everyone wants us to date.) But I just don't get that... feeling, y'know? Like, the butterflies-in-the-stomach-and-I'm-blushing-when-he-speaks-to-me feeling. It just doesn't seem to be there..?
YAY! You're moving out with Dave! That's amazing! Keep us posted. :D

CON:
Yeah... you're right, I know. Haha.
But I'm glad that you're trying to let Lu go. I hope you're feeling better. You need some new, hot guys in your life to distract you... :wink:
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Ok, so I went to prom a while ago with this guy. We went as friends. This is my first time EVER going out with a guy. I wanted to spend time with my friends, because I obviously didnt know what to do. He was mad at me because I was dancing with them, I did dance with him though. When he got mad, I left him for a while, went and talked to someone else.
It was mostly awkward. I havent spoke to him since.
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Well, ROCKETSHIP:
First, welcome to the thread! :D
Second of all, how long ago was this? And it's understandable that it was weird because it was your first date... how much did you like him? Enough that you want to pursue him again? I mean, I'm sure he can't be holding a grudge about something as silly as that... he's a guy. They don't really hold grudges against girls. So I say try talking to him again. Just see where it goes.
And let us know how it goes, too! :D
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Well, I dont like him in that way. Im the one who isnt talking to him, because I dont know what to say.
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Well, then, if you don't like him, don't worry about it. I'm sure he doesn't really care that much. So don't sweat it.
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Twilightvampire17: I am the same way with guys. They are my friends and that is all. But I have had a boyfriend and it lasted about two weeks. Not very long. But I'm over that. We still hang out when he is off work.

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*VampireVixen* wrote: SxL- I can't believe that you and Noah are going to break up... You two were so good together. I understand what you mean about him flirting and making you feel uncomfortable. If he was smart he would know to quit doing that and just be friends with the girls but not flirt with them. They can be friends without flirting. He needs to cut that out. If you feel like you and Noah wont last just because you two are different people then maybe you should break up. If you feel like you need someone more mature then you should look for someone that fits your standards. Noah might just be going thru a phase right now and is all excited about turning 18. Who knows if he'll grow out of it and start acting like an adult. I think alot of guys are always more immature than they should be.
I think you should still try to talk to him before deciding to COMPLETELY end it forever. You cant tell him to stop hanging out with his female friends, but if he cares about you alot then he should be willing to at least cool off the flirting and treat you like you should be treated. With respect and with love and not flirt with other girls while he's with you. But thats all up to him if he's willing to do that. If he's not, then maybe he's not right for you. You deserve better. Let us know what happens ok honey. I still think you should try talking with him at least...
Thanks for the kind words. :] I am definitely going to talk to him tomorrow, I think. For a long time I was just fooling myself that this was working, that I was OK with everything. 'Cause he does make me happy. I love his smile and his laugh and the way he looks at me. I love his witty responses and his spontaneity and all his dorkiness. I mean, I'm not ending it forever. I'm just saying, come back to me in October after things settle down. I have decisions coming up that I need to make, and he's going to need time to get adjusted to college, and the timing has just turned out to be terrible. I knew it all along. And the thing is, I'm hurting already and he's not even gone yet. And it's not working for me to hold onto him right now when I won't have any idea what he's doing, who he's with, etc. Not that I need to know what he's doing all the time, but it's just going to be hectic. And I will let him know that I still have feelings for him. I don't think these issues that I have are petty, because it does take more than mutual attraction to make a relationship work. It just hurts too much when I feel like I have to compete for his attention, and when he'll be off mixing it up with new people, and basically I'll be waiting to see if it's going to work for him after he settles into college. Noah has flaws, yes, Con. And I accept them. He's a MAJOR procrastinator, the worst I've ever seen. But that's not why I'm breaking up. He's reckless and restless...but that's not why either. Even if he shaped up and stopped the flirting, and stopped being reckless, and did things on time :roll: , I would still have to sit and wait through August and September while he's at college and I'm here, getting on with my life. So it's not forever if he doesn't want it to be forever. This is just a "let us pause and get past this part" thing. Because I can't do it right now. It hurts. Everytime someone has said anything nice to me today I have cried. lol. I'm such a mess. I hope he takes it well. I'm just afraid he'll stop calling.
Nat's Update~
Well I finally got my loan so I think me and Dave will be moving out in a week or so!! We just have to find a good place and get approved to move in. I'm so excited! I've been waiting to move out with him for so long. His parents aren't going to be too happy though :? They want us to be married first, but I don't want to wait that long! Well I'll let you guys know when the official day of moving out is...
Love you guys!!!
Yay! You sound so excited! Wow, this is a major step! Do you know all of each other's quirks, or do you think there'll be surprises? XD

LMSC, Thanks girl! You're a sweetie! That quote is very true. I hope Noah comes back to me. I think this will be a good test. I think I just need to let him go get on with his college stuff now and so he can get adjusted and not feel tied down. And that way I won't be here, waiting, waiting, hurting, wondering what he's doing, who he's with, etc. Wish me luck. I will talk to him tomorrow afternoon if I can. I'm working for my mom for most of tomorrow so I will do it after that.

Holden, SPILL DUDE.

Twilightvampire17: I think a lot of people have that problem. But I think a lot of the time, girls just THINK guys only see them as friends. My older sister is pretty and smart but she's always like "Guys don't like me! I'm just their sister!" And I want to smack her, because it's ridiculous. lol. Guys can be really shy and insecure, and I'll bet you have at least one secret admirer. ;] And hey, who says a girl can't ask out a guy? It's 2008, love. Has anyone caught your eye?
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hey everyone i'm back well only for alittle while becuase i have to go to the doctors this week so how is everyone i guess you guys want updates on me so here i go i have a guy in my sight he is a really sweet and funny guy his name is andrew hes a farm boy can't get any better than that :wink: he does most of the talking *my shyness comes out* and i listen usally we are in a group he is really cute thought i have gotten a hugs from him *le gasp* but i'm trying to parsue him as best i can but he is 20 and i don't know if he wants to date a 16 year old but we will find out out now oh and hugs for everyone

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zerolover34: Yea you can't get any better than a farm boy. And good for you. And I don't know if that legall for him to date you. But good luck anyway.
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zerolover34: Yea you can't get any better than a farm boy. And good for you. And I don't know if that legall for him to date you. But good luck anyway.
in vermont it is i love my state and i am a farm girl :D

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